lao lao wif her watch...
the upper is my watch and the other is lao lao eh new watch...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO LAO LAO!!!!!!
Friday, February 20, 2009
- happy 23rd birthday to LAO LAO -
wishing kaye happy 23rd birthday ya...more handsome and more slim slim slim (34 , 28 & 34) every year k....haha!!!! =) tis year she got 3 cake...i wan aso...for my birthday.hehe!!!hey...STOP DREAMING pls....haha...as tis morning when i wake up...i receive 1 msg from her...OMG...all in chinese words...i duno how to read lah LAO LAO!!!but is ok lah i ask my boss eh bro to translate it to me...hmm...as wat she send to us...i noe u r sad and unhappy yesterday coz of ur family problem but i reli wish u have a happy time wif us yesterday and the cake ya and and and the most important is the red egg...feel PAIN rite???tats wat i feel too when ai birthday , ai and bianca do like tat to me too when both of them "BOH KAM MUAN" ....reli pain!!!!i noe coz i KENA b4....haha!!!her dearest aiai bought her CASIO watch for her present...here are some photo of it...
lao lao wif her watch...
lao lao wif her watch...
Thursday, February 19, 2009
- friendship -
lovely thought :-
"Death is not greatest loss in life....
The greatest loss is when a friendship dies inside us while we are still alive...."
"Death is not greatest loss in life....
The greatest loss is when a friendship dies inside us while we are still alive...."
Saturday, February 14, 2009
new watch a.k.a casio edifice
finally i get the watch i wan...haha!!!wait long time for it coz of the stock that the shop need to order.i'm so so so DAMM happy....yeepi!!!! =)
here are the pic i took after i buy it....
Friday, February 6, 2009
FORGIVE & FORGET
To take revenge on trouble-makers is only to create more problems and disturbances. You must realise that negative feelings and hostile actions could only bring harm and suffering to both you and the trouble-maker. In order to take retaliatory action, you have to harbour intense hatred in your heart. This hatred is like a poison. Since the poison is initially in you, surely it will harm you before it can harm anyone else. Before you can throw a blazing iron at another, you can burned first. Your action merely goes to show that there is no basic difference between you and your opponent.
By hating others, you only give them power over you. You do not solve the problem. If you become angry with a person who simply smiles back at you, then you will feel defeated and miserable. Since he did not co-operate with you to fulfil your wish, it is he who is victorious.
The Buddha teaches us how to live happily when we are faced with disturbances.(Ah happily do we live without hate amongst the hateful. Amidst hateful men, we live without hate.)
We can live happily without fanning the fires of hatred. Perhaps you may not be strong enough to extend compassionate love to your enemies, but for the sake of your own health and happiness and that of everyone else, you must at least learn how to forgive and forget.
By not hating or crushing your trouble-maker, you act like a gentleman. To act in this manner, you must understand that the other people has been misled by anger, jealousy and ignorance. He is therefore no different from all other human beings who have also at one time or another been misled by the same negative states of mind.
The Buddha says:"Evil -doers are not wicked by nature. They do evil because they are ignorant. Therefore they need guidance"
We should not curse them. It is not justifiable for us to say that they should be condemned to everlasting suffering as it is still not too late to correct them. We should try to explain to them in a very convincing way that they are in fact in the wrong. With this understanding, you can treat the evil-doers as you would a patient who is suffering from a sickness and in need of treatment. When the sickness is cured the ex-patient and everyone else will be well and happy. The ignorant must be guided by the wise.
Good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.
If a man does something wrong to you out of ignorance or misunderstanding. then that is the time to radiate your compassionate love towards the evil-doer. Oneday, he will realise his folly and relent on his evil habits. So it is better to give him a chance to be good. Repentance of his past misdeeds will change him into a better person and in the end he will truly appreciate your kind thoughts.
The most compassionate Buddha's advice is:"Hatred does not cease by hatred, by love alone it cease. This is eternal law."
If you can radiate compassionate love, no harm will come to you. This will help you to achieve both physical and mental health. Life has it own rhythm. When you lose on the swing, you gain on the roundabout. Those who do not understand this principle often get into trouble and face difficulties in life.
If a man does something wrong to you again and again, you must act wisely in correcting him each time he make the mistake. Although it is not so easy to do that, you should nevertheless try your best to follow the example set by Buddha. Then you will come to know that it is after all not impossible. The attitude of the Buddha in such a situation could be summarised thus:
" The more evil that comes to me, the more good will radiate from me."
Some people think that it is not practicable to return good for evil. Try it and see for yourself. If you find it too difficult to return good for evil, then you can still do a great service to yourself and to others by not returning evil for evil."Sympatheic consideration is needed for less-understanding people who make mistakes."
(by stan)
By hating others, you only give them power over you. You do not solve the problem. If you become angry with a person who simply smiles back at you, then you will feel defeated and miserable. Since he did not co-operate with you to fulfil your wish, it is he who is victorious.
The Buddha teaches us how to live happily when we are faced with disturbances.(Ah happily do we live without hate amongst the hateful. Amidst hateful men, we live without hate.)
We can live happily without fanning the fires of hatred. Perhaps you may not be strong enough to extend compassionate love to your enemies, but for the sake of your own health and happiness and that of everyone else, you must at least learn how to forgive and forget.
By not hating or crushing your trouble-maker, you act like a gentleman. To act in this manner, you must understand that the other people has been misled by anger, jealousy and ignorance. He is therefore no different from all other human beings who have also at one time or another been misled by the same negative states of mind.
The Buddha says:"Evil -doers are not wicked by nature. They do evil because they are ignorant. Therefore they need guidance"
We should not curse them. It is not justifiable for us to say that they should be condemned to everlasting suffering as it is still not too late to correct them. We should try to explain to them in a very convincing way that they are in fact in the wrong. With this understanding, you can treat the evil-doers as you would a patient who is suffering from a sickness and in need of treatment. When the sickness is cured the ex-patient and everyone else will be well and happy. The ignorant must be guided by the wise.
Good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.
If a man does something wrong to you out of ignorance or misunderstanding. then that is the time to radiate your compassionate love towards the evil-doer. Oneday, he will realise his folly and relent on his evil habits. So it is better to give him a chance to be good. Repentance of his past misdeeds will change him into a better person and in the end he will truly appreciate your kind thoughts.
The most compassionate Buddha's advice is:"Hatred does not cease by hatred, by love alone it cease. This is eternal law."
If you can radiate compassionate love, no harm will come to you. This will help you to achieve both physical and mental health. Life has it own rhythm. When you lose on the swing, you gain on the roundabout. Those who do not understand this principle often get into trouble and face difficulties in life.
If a man does something wrong to you again and again, you must act wisely in correcting him each time he make the mistake. Although it is not so easy to do that, you should nevertheless try your best to follow the example set by Buddha. Then you will come to know that it is after all not impossible. The attitude of the Buddha in such a situation could be summarised thus:
" The more evil that comes to me, the more good will radiate from me."
Some people think that it is not practicable to return good for evil. Try it and see for yourself. If you find it too difficult to return good for evil, then you can still do a great service to yourself and to others by not returning evil for evil."Sympatheic consideration is needed for less-understanding people who make mistakes."
(by stan)
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
- couple -
recently, i awiz out wif my bro leo...and wats the funniest things is she act like we r couple.funny rite??we both like gay couple.u all sure wil faint if u saw how we act like... ==""
yesterday i out wif her again.just 2 of us.we goin for the wedding game movie at 7smtg and finish the movie around 9smtg.then we both goin to gurney plaza segafredo since she wana so meet "som1" there.so i order 1/2 of guiness stout and she order hawaiin island if im not mistaken for the cocktail name...but she is sad coz the "som1" say she is lazy to come down to meet us so after we finish our drink we goin to new lane to meet the "som1" and her frenz.talk talk talk....all of them aso say we are like gay couple.so GELI nia.haha...then they say they wana go ikki so we just follow them and i reach hum 1smtg.
p/s: wait i'll ask my frenz to snap some pic of me and leo the "gay couple" and u wil noe how funny it is
yesterday i out wif her again.just 2 of us.we goin for the wedding game movie at 7smtg and finish the movie around 9smtg.then we both goin to gurney plaza segafredo since she wana so meet "som1" there.so i order 1/2 of guiness stout and she order hawaiin island if im not mistaken for the cocktail name...but she is sad coz the "som1" say she is lazy to come down to meet us so after we finish our drink we goin to new lane to meet the "som1" and her frenz.talk talk talk....all of them aso say we are like gay couple.so GELI nia.haha...then they say they wana go ikki so we just follow them and i reach hum 1smtg.
p/s: wait i'll ask my frenz to snap some pic of me and leo the "gay couple" and u wil noe how funny it is
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
happy MOO year
wishing u all happy Moo year...i noe i was late to wish u all.im fucking bz nowadays coz awiz hanging out wif my bro leo them....every nite just drink drink and drink.drunk drunk drunk!!!tats was how i celebrate my chinese new year.tis new year i wish tat all of u earn more more and more money and healthy awiz.... =))
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